In my view almost all girl want to be dependent on men, I hope I might be wrong.

its not only that women like being dependent on men..its that both women and men like to be dependent on each other..u can look upto a husband wife relation where men like to be dependent on breakfast lunch,finding purse, love or say for a house which they wanna purchase in future and both are earning for it..u can have more eamples and women wanna be dependent on men for love,for d same house for a baby and so on..

both are eqally dependent on each other

Yes, If you are talking about other thing rather than finance "money" and security. But in case of money and security men like being dependent on women.

sunayna wrote:its not only that women like being dependent on men..its that both women and men like to be dependent on each other..u can look upto a husband wife relation where men like to be dependent on breakfast lunch,finding purse, love or say for a house which they wanna purchase in future and both are earning for it..u can have more eamples and women wanna be dependent on men for love,for d same house for a baby and so on..

both are eqally dependent on each other

women and men can't "like" to be dependent on each other. they have to. there's no choice. as far as concerned only with women, women's dependency is "seen" and men's one is an "unseen".

richa wrote:women and men can't "like" to be dependent on each other. they have to. there's no choice. as far as concerned only with women, women's dependency is "seen" and men's one is an "unseen".

Usually women prefer men who are couple of years older than them.
Women choose to prefer successful guy over unsuccessful guy regardless of if they are loved or not.
Women are attracted to dominant guys and usually hate wussies( Weaklings)...

Any comments???

eveningpolestar wrote:

richa wrote:women and men can't "like" to be dependent on each other. they have to. there's no choice. as far as concerned only with women, women's dependency is "seen" and men's one is an "unseen".

Usually women prefer men who are couple of years older than them.
Women choose to prefer successful guy over unsuccessful guy regardless of if they are loved or not.
Women are attracted to dominant guys and usually hate wussies( Weaklings)...

Any comments???

yes i do have comment.
if u are saying in "prefer" context then men also always are attracted to beautiful gals..regardless of ugly ones are loved or not.. i thought we are debating on dependent context y u r going in what women prefer or not prefer...its their choice.. like men can decide which type of gal they want cant a gal decide which type of men they want..

sunayna wrote:

eveningpolestar wrote:

richa wrote:women and men can't "like" to be dependent on each other. they have to. there's no choice. as far as concerned only with women, women's dependency is "seen" and men's one is an "unseen".

Usually women prefer men who are couple of years older than them.
Women choose to prefer successful guy over unsuccessful guy regardless of if they are loved or not.
Women are attracted to dominant guys and usually hate wussies( Weaklings)...

Any comments???

yes i do have comment.
if u are saying in "prefer" context then men also always are attracted to beautiful gals..regardless of ugly ones are loved or not.. i thought we are debating on dependent context y u r going in what women prefer or not prefer...its their choice.. like men can decide which type of gal they want cant a gal decide which type of men they want..

"prefer" is related to dependency. If women don't want to be dependent why do they prefer wealthy man or hardworking man, who can earn money. Why don't they choose the man who is more handsome or who loves her. In case of man they look for beautiful girl rather then girl's property or ability to earn money.

its a well known truth that our social factors also contribute in shaping our preference and dependency!!! we, both girls and boys have known and realised that we both are dependent on each other!!! women's dependeny on physical matters are seen coz they always want security!!! but interestingly!! boys also like girls to be dependent on them....

but we always regard wealth, security only as a means of dependency and always try to show women low in these regards coz we know these "seen" dependency is a weapon to show women low.

if men and women would have got equal skill in everything, we never would have complement each other!!! we never would have need each other!!! we are different!! this difference has made this life beautiful and this world beautiful....

Well, i don't agree. I believe men want women to be dependent on them either.
That's the way how our nature has developed us as a dominant species.
You can also see my article posted on thread "square". The link for my article
http://thenepalesedebate.forumotion.com/the-square-f8/inevitable-destination-or-codified-curse-t353.htm

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i didnt exactly understand what do you mean by this dependence but whatever form it might be, i dont totally agree with you
if you are saying on the basis of what we observe in day to day life, then yes it is but lets not forget the fact that this reality is socially constructed and wmen, directly or indirectly as are inspired to be dependent on brothers, husbands, fathers and son, are taught to get a green signal from these males before really coming into action. so you ar true if only this statement just reflects the societal spectrum.
but i dont think that this statement really works in the level where this social construction of reality ends. dont you believe that this dependece is eroding significantly with every sucessive generation? if dependece would be such a natural tendency, then why would i become drastically less dependent on whoever my male near ones are vis a vis my mother?
having said all these i really consder the fact that men and women are so much complementary to each other. emotionally too they are halves of each other and so lets not narrow down this essence in such a word called dependece and even if we tend to do so, then here its obvious that even male are eually dependent on women

I feel both are dependent to each other. A girl seeking older guys as husband is not only the factor of trying to dependent on the latter one but even scientifically it is proven that it's biologically essential. The dependence that is being talked over here is only a mere illusion that has been created quite a while ago with the start of the civilization...men started to become stronger when women were busy caring for newborns...men had to hunt and share with women and newborns... what if women had to hunt and men had to look after the kid ... well this is the path being followed and later named women as weakling...and physically they seem so...but they are much more sensible as men...and no doubt in that...

In decision making or repairing household stuffs women like to be dependent on man. but in rest of things i believe they do well on their own. specially house hold and taking care of family etc....